Henrywrites wrote:In as much as I don't think there is anything wrong with online dating, it is always right to get to know the other person when the news of marriage comes into play. It is not that you did something bad by saying yes to the proposal, but try to create time to visit your fiance and be with he/she for some time in order to look through his behavior before concluding whether the ring should be in your finger or not. The reason I said so is to avoid heartache that might arise in the future from such relationships.
@Henrywrites This is exactly my point, online dating is good no doubt. It makes one feel valued and important because of constant check up with chatting and calling but believe me that not all that glitters are gold. Some people are 100% good with pretence and they play it very good that you would have it almost impossible to find out.
This is why it's important to go spend real personal time with such person, even if he or she was pretending that's the opportunity you have to discover the truth for yourself because he cannot pretend successfully if you are around. There will be room for him or her to slip up and show exactly his or her behavior.