Heatman wrote:Hova wrote:Once you cheat it is over, there is no going back after that. We each just go our own way and that's that.
There was this case one of my friend brought to me about his relationship with his girlfriend. She actually cheated on him and the guy found out what had happened and confronted her.
She admitted to having cheated on the guy but turned around and blamed the guy for being the reason why she had to cheat on him, saying that he wasn't romantic anymore in the relationship. How do you feel about such reason for cheating?
First of all no one can make you do anything. People who blame their indiscretions on other people are just cowards and liars. People are weak, men and women alike. Eventually, we all cheat and there is nothing we can do about it.
Second, if you happen to find out that your spouse is cheating, do the same thing yourself and move on. You are not going to get anything by confronting him/her.